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Wednesday, August 02, 2006
~flirting rules~

~Flirting Rules~

Once you're comfortable with your own self, you will begin to see a difference in the way you carry yourself. Now, to really shine, all you need is to observe a few flirting rules:

1. Keep smiling! Let the smile come forth naturally. Don't manufacture one because others can tell.

2. Catch His Eye. Once you've identified that cute guy, catch his eye and smile. Walk up to him until about an arm's length distance away, then start a conversation. Don't just talk away, make sure he's looking at you and is aware of your presence.

3. Give Compliments. Compliment him on his clothes, or sense of humor. Saying "Hey, you've got a great jacket, where did you buy it?" makes him think that you are noticing things about him, and your attention is flattering.

4. Keep Your Body Language Open. Look at him when talking but don't stare. When you're telling an anecdote, lightly touch his arm when you're about to reveal the climax of the story, as if you're making a point. Like "And you know what happened after that??" Touch the arm. "He actually flew back to Singapore to meet her!"

5. Listen With Interest. When he's talking, listen with interest. Sound like you're paying attention by adding "Hmmm..." or "Yeah..." at appropriate intervals and tilt your head to the side slightly.

6. Positive & Engaging. Keep your conversation light-hearted and humorous. Don't gossip negative stuff about a mutual friend. You don't want him to think you're a big blabbermouth.

7. Make Your Move. When the conversation is coming to an end, and you decide you'll like to stay in touch, don't be afraid to give him your number. In fact, guys will be more responsive because they will think you are one hot chick who's available!